closet inventory February 8, 2010
Posted by heathereliza in In Their Words, Musings & Reflection.Tags: clothes, consumerism, Door of Hope Church, inventory, shopping, simplicity
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by Kristi Pratt
This weekend concludes the fourth week of school. It is also the first weekend of February, the date which I declared for myself that I could shop for clothes again—but only at thrift stores. Without deliberately going out to buy clothes, I somehow managed to buy a dress and a shirt this weekend while walking down Hawthorne with a friend. It amazes me how a coffee date turns into thrift-store shopping and trying on ten dresses that you justify as “teacher clothes.” (I am starting my second practicum on Monday.)
I think the problem with my motives for buying clothes is that they initiate a never-ending cycle. I will always justify buying clothes by saying to myself, “What if this opportunity doesn’t come again? You may not need this right now, but it may never come again.” Then once I buy that item of clothing, I have the feeling of “I need something else to go with what I just bought.” Then my shopping trips of eluding boredom will turn into this endless cycle of buying the “good bargains” and chasing after the feeling of “I need more.”
At Door of Hope, the church I currently attend, we have been learning about the 7 Deadly Sins. A couple weeks ago we went over greed. The pastor, Josh White, classified greed as taking more than we need. This six-month challenge has caused me to realize how greedy I really am. I consume for the wrong reasons, and I consume excessively. Not buying clothes over this past month has made me realize how much I don’t need to. It’s amazing how peaceful you feel when you are more comfortable with yourself and you are content with what you have! When you have the mentality of “I need more,” you are constantly a slave to an unattainable goal of satisfaction.
My supervisor, Heather, challenged me a couple weeks ago to do a closet inventory. I have been dragging my heels a little bit to do it just because I know that it will make me face the reality of how much I own.
So here is the closet inventory that I took:
-10 Cardigans (I LOVE cardigans)
-11 skirts (teacher clothes?)
-9 Sweaters
-5 Outterwear Jackets
-3 Cotton Jackets
-5 Hooded Sweatshirts
-3 Hoodless Sweatshirts
-8 Dresses
-3 Crazy Dresses (my 50’s dress, polka dot dress and 80’s dress)
-9 Pairs of Jeans
-5 Pairs of Slacks
-27 Tank Tops (ouch)
-7 Long-Sleeved Shirts
-14 Short Sleeved Shirts
-2 Pairs of Leggings
-4 Pairs of Tights
-13 Colored T-Shirts
-6 Long-sleeved T-Shirts
-6 Pairs of Sweatpants
-8 Pairs of PJ Pants
-12 Sports Shorts
-13 Work-out T-Shirts
For a very grand total of 183 articles of clothing.
First of all, I don’t know how all those clothes fit—considering that number. Second, multiplying that number by 10 (I figure that’s about the average cost of what I’ve paid for my clothes) is almost $2,000, most of which I have bought in the past 2-3 years. That is a lot of money to have been spent excessively. It is a crazy thought to know that I have spent that much, especially thinking about the people in this world who do not have clothes to change on a regular basis, or shoes that they can wear to protect their feet. I feel like the epitome of a “greedy American” after doing this.
And lastly, I still have clothes at home.
After this weekend’s shopping trip, I have now told myself that for every piece of clothing I buy, I must give 2 away. Now I definitely believe in that rule.
the six month challenge January 26, 2010
Posted by heathereliza in In Their Words, Musings & Reflection.Tags: clothes, consumerism, money, New Years resolution, simplicity
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I have come to terms with the fact that I have way too many clothes in my closet. Shoes and accessories, too. I love clothes shopping, and I don’t get rid of things, which is not a good combination.
I came to this realization over the summer as I was packing my bags after working at a summer camp. I was in a frantic hurry to get to the airport, the reason being that my mom had just experienced a near-fatal accident. In that moment of packing, I felt like there was a voice saying to me, “Why do you have all this stuff? You can’t take all of it with you, so why do you keep piling up treasures for yourself on this earth when there are so many more important things in life, like relationships and your faith?”
I have not forgotten that feeling of not being able to fit everything into my bags. Nor have I forgotten those words. And now, I am finally doing something about it.
As of January 1, 2010, I have decided to not buy any new clothes, shoes or accessories from retail for the next six months. I will not buy any clothes, shoes or accessories from anywhere but thrift stores (now that I’m thinking about it, I think that craft bazaars might be acceptable as I am planning one for my school). But the point is, I don’t want to buy anything that is brand new, and I want to limit the excess things that I buy the most (clothes, shoes and accessories).
I thought this resolution wouldn’t be too hard since I love shopping at thrift stores, but within these first few weeks of my mission, I have been tempted to go back on my resolution. The first time was when I found a $6 jacket at Target… I almost used a gift card to buy it, finding a loop hole in my own rules, but thankfully I resisted. The second time was when my sister went dress shopping for her Winter Formal dress. I was going to go along and possibly look for a dress to buy for our Spring Banquet, without even realizing at first that would break my resolution. Thankfully I had too much homework to do, keeping me from caving in.
The most recent “almost-stumble” occurred the other day when a friend was wearing a similar pair of flats that I own. They are my favorite flats but now water leaks into them whenever I walk outside, making my feet soppy wet even if I just walk across campus. My friend told me that the very same shoes are now at Target (once again!) for $5! I was torn. At this point I hadn’t decided if shoes fit into my “thrift-store-only” list. After a little consideration, I decided that I would not buy the shoes and that shoes should be included in my resolution because my buying shoes is similar to my clothes—both are spending money on things that I do not need to spend that much money on.
I know that buying from thrift stores isn’t as good as giving up clothing purchases altogether for 6 months. However I feel better about buying from a thrift store rather than department stores because it’s like getting 2 for 1 (1 thing is used by 2 or more people). This six month mission isn’t just about seeing if I can resist deals at Target. I want to learn a little bit more about living simply. Hopefully by limiting myself to thrift stores, I will limit my consumption of clothes, shoes and accessories. I know that I do not need all the things I buy, and this resolution will hopefully be the action of my belief.
to live. simply. January 25, 2010
Posted by heathereliza in Musings & Reflection.Tags: challenge, college students, consumerism, Henry D. Thoreau, simplicity
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At the beginning of this semester, Kristi Pratt—a sophomore at WP—told me that she wanted to live more simply. Kristi realized that she owned too many clothes, spent too much discretionary income on unnecessary items, and wound up tangled in the alluring web of consumerism. Those are my words, not hers. Yet her personal challenge to live more simply caught my attention.
I pride myself in living with simplicity. I choose not to purchase the latest fashions when they hit the stores. I have cut back on my coffee outings. I try to purchase organic, fair trade, and local whenever I can for a simpler, cleaner diet. I find extraordinary thrill in planning creative and thrifty dates.
Yet as I thought more about it this weekend, simplicity is not merely financial. Money plays a big role, yes, especially in our consumer-driven society. But there is more to simplicity. It is, as Charles Wagner stated, a state of mind.
What does it mean to live simply? Laura Ingalls Wilder said the simple things were the real ones. Painter and inventor, Leonardo da Vinci, called simplicity “the ultimate sophistication.” Johann Wolfgang Von Goethe connected simplicity to truth. And E.F. Schumacher called simplicity a courageous act, and one that demands a touch of genius.
The man who hung out by Walden Pond—Henry David Thoreau—reflected upon Simplicity and wrote quite emphatically, “Our life is frittered away by detail…Simplify, simplify, simplify! I say, let your affairs be as two or three, and not a hundred or a thousand; instead of a million count half a dozen, and keep your accounts on your thumb-nail.”
My affairs on my thumbnail? Not very likely. Particularly as I have unusually small fingers to begin with. Still, what would Thoreau say if he saw our daily schedules or the stacks of DVDs next to our televisions? How might Wagner perceive our culture’s ever-frenzied desire to own the newest and best? Or our constant need to be productive?
Over the course of this semester, check back here to read about Kristi’s quest to reexamine the simple side of life. What does this really look like in our 21st century, Western world? I invite you to travel with her. Join Kristi on her challenges, if you feel so prompted. Or just read Kristi’s entries as she tackles the formidable endeavor of living simply.
